Anonymous asked: advise for a very insecure and sad teen girl?
Ask yourself — be frank — what’s the reward you get for being sad and insecure? Do you get extra attention from the people who try to fix or rescue you? Do you get to opt out of big goals and scary commitments? Consider that those rewards ( pay-offs ) are nothing compared to the joy of moving forward. I give you permission to be sad and insecure for one more week.
what an idiot urgh